What’s worse, the break up or the heart break? I am still trying to figure out that question. I know everything happens for a reason...but to me, it’s hard to understand when the “where did it go wrong?” can’t be answered because in between it all, it’s still unknown.
The hardest part is remaining positive. Remember, you can’t change what happened so just make yourself better and not bitter. It’s hard to not be upset sometimes, not be angry but it all gets better, you get better. People walk in and out of your life for a reason and you learn from them. What is meant to be will find its way (I know it’s cliché) but sitting and over analyzing everything will not make the situation better. It takes time to fully accept that the person you love is now a memory… and as for me, a beautiful memory. But when all falls apart, keep reaching for the stars.
Find yourself, love yourself, do what you love! Keep pursuing your goals and dreams. I have kept myself so busy that sometimes I don’t even have time to think. And what happens when I want to break-down, (because it’s normal to have those days..) I run. Focusing myself to being healthy, feeling good, and becoming a better student really helps. I was taught to always turn my negatives into positives, and that is what everyone should learn to do.
As for the “getting over” part...let time work it’s magic because unfortunately there’s no delete button for feelings. Don’t forget time heals all wounds. Of course, I will always wonder “what if…” but hey! that’s okay, right? So, if you can relate- be positive, love yourself first and keep moving. When a heart breaks it never breaks even…so be the strong person you know you are.